Fridays

Every Friday I am left to do what I want if I did not existed to him. I cannot go to a certain club because he is going there, and I don't know what to think. Sometimes I am thinking he is going there because he wants to see or meet other women. Or is someone already waiting there? I have seen it many times how he flirts with others in front of my eyes, or is he just being friendly? On one occasion, we came together to a party, he greeted someone he knew and they just went off dancing together. I was just left standing there and felt hurt and furious and just bad. I could not say a thing this night. grrr, I better go back doing something before my thoughts absorb me too much.

Revisiting 'RESPECT'

I really had to look up the definition of respect as I wasn't sure if I am experienced it. It's about text messages. Text messages are sent countless times, perhaps with some carelessness...everything that comes to our mind we text away, at every hour of the day or night. Often it only conveys a message or a thought or a statement, or a mood, with no apparent reason to anser as there might not be a question. However, does that mean that we should ignore it? Or should we not acknowledge receipt at least? Is there respect to consider?

Recalling respect: Respect is looking at a person and consider their state, being and situation, respond appropriately. Other put it in more precise words like "giving positive attention and providing positive recognition." So, in other words avoiding, being silent, providing no answer is disrespect. Hence not answering a text is disrespectful? Well, sometimes for me it is. I can't remember when I did not answer a text or email the last time...only if I truly forget....