Love and Quantum Physics

This is a nice idea and I read it in the book "Random Acts of Heroic Love" by Danny Scheinmann. Very good read. Makes you cry in the Tube, btw. Anyway, here is relationship explained and Quantum Physics terms:  "Not every collision will make an electron change its spin-an electron can have many affairs,.., but not all will be significant. If, however, the electron is profoundly affected by another electron it will become entangled with the new partner."

Fridays

Every Friday I am left to do what I want if I did not existed to him. I cannot go to a certain club because he is going there, and I don't know what to think. Sometimes I am thinking he is going there because he wants to see or meet other women. Or is someone already waiting there? I have seen it many times how he flirts with others in front of my eyes, or is he just being friendly? On one occasion, we came together to a party, he greeted someone he knew and they just went off dancing together. I was just left standing there and felt hurt and furious and just bad. I could not say a thing this night. grrr, I better go back doing something before my thoughts absorb me too much.

Love and togetherness

It's hard to hear: " I can't give you love and togetherness..." Should I stay or should I go.....the song springs to my mind

Facebook says, I am in a relationship

Why would one wanna do that?, he asked. I wouldn't want anybody to know. Shall I run now? He does not seem to value a relationship.....tough, I hardly know him, which is why I actually should not give up straightaway, or should I.

On When Men Reveal Thoughts and Feelings

Gregory David Roberts writes in his book Shantaram: "Karla onces said that men reveal what they THINK when they look away, and what they FEEL when they hesitate. WITH WOMEN, she said, it's the other way around. (Chapter 23)

Moon Rock & Perspective

"Whenever arguments [...] heated up beyond reason, I would interrupt and say, 'You see that rock? It's 3.6 billion years old (moon rock). We're all just passing through. Let's calm down and go back to work'. That moon rock gave me a whole different perspective on history and the proverbial 'long run'. Our job is to live as well and as long as we can, and to help others to do the same. [...] All we have is the moment." (Bill Clinton's My Life, 2002)

A Good Man's Life

"According to Wordsworth, the best portion of a good man's life is his little, unremembered acts of kindness and love." (Bill Clinton, My Life, 2002)

Eleanor Roosevelt said

..that no one can make you feel inferior without your permission: Don't give them permission." (from Clinton's My Life, 2004.) (Picture: Time)

On Sleeping

Sleeping together in one bed is considered one of the most beautiful things in life. Nobody wants to sleep alone really. Most babies protest and cry when bedtime but do not object if one parent lay down with them; teenagers invite their friends to stay over for the night, and couples (married or not) cherish their king-size bed where they crawl into together at the end of the day. In terms of caring and daring, making and shaking realtionship, sharing beds is priceless.

But what about the quality of the sleep? The magazine Der Spiegel | Wissen (No 4/2009) points out that research on sleep has proved that due to different sleep pattern as well as genetically determined sleep mechanisms, individuals would be required to sleep alone in order to have the restorative sleep that is needed. And yet, despite scientific proof, couples claim to sleep better with their partners. It seems as if sharing beds was an expression of closeness and feeling of security, amongst westerners at least. Notwithstanding fights for the duvet, snoring, being kicked or pushed away, nobody is thinking of having separate beds, especially not women, who wake easier and more often, according to research. Sharing beds seems vital for overall well-being and quality of relationships. The quality of sleep and even sex come second and third.....